I have plenty of articles on the site about how to get to extras at a strip club, or how to have a wild time without spending a ton of cash.
But I also know a lot of guys sometimes just want to chill at the strip club with a girl. Nothing too crazy. Just get a dance every now and again and chill with a stripper that they click with.
There’s nothing wrong with that kind of experience either, and it can be a great way to chill and unwind. However, it can sometimes be hard to make it happen if every stripper in the club is just hunting for cash.
So, in this article, I’ll give you some tips if you just want to chill with a stripper at the club and not spend a ton of cash.
Go on Slower Nights
I always say that strip clubs are very random places, and anything can happen on any given night. However, when a club is rocking and packed with customers, the strippers go into “money-mode”.
What that means is that they won’t spend much time with a customer once he stops spending.
Of course, that happens with all strippers, but the busier it is in the club, the less inclined they’ll be to sit and chill with a customer, even if they want to. The lure of new customers constantly coming in with full wallets is just too great.
On slower nights, strippers are happy to find a guy who will spend at a moderate pace throughout the night. It makes the night fun for them. Plus, they like making the other strippers jealous who are sitting around the empty club with no customers. Strippers love making other strippers jealous.
Find a Stripper That Drinks
This can go both ways, but in general, a stripper who drinks will hang out at your table if you’re ordering drinks and she’s having fun.
This isn’t because the stripper gets drunk. It’s because a stripper who is drinking doesn’t mind having fun that night, in addition to making some money. A sober stripper is usually only focused on money. A striper who is drinking is open to having fun.
Helps if you Click With the Stripper
I have another article on how to chat up strippers, and it helps a lot of you who are new to strip clubs and want to have the best experience possible.
Once you know how to chat up a fun stripper, it’s much easier to get her to chill with you without you having to constantly drop cash. If you click with the stripper, she’ll be cool with you getting a dance here and there, and just chilling the rest of the time and sipping on some drinks.
If you’re talking with a stripper and there’s just no connection, don’t try to force it if your goal is just chilling for the night. It won’t work, and you should just move on to another stripper.
Some Strippers Prefer to Chill with One Guy
In almost every club, there will be at least one or two strippers who prefer to chill with one guy the whole night. They usually have a set amount they want to make, and if they can get that from one guy, they prefer that over bouncing from guy to guy.
If you can spot this type of stripper, you’re pretty much set. The trick is to read them when they sit and talk with you. Girls who want to chill with one guy will usually be less overtly flirty and slightly warmer than a standard stripper.
Instead of grabbing all over you, this type of stripper will usually start with some decent small talk that’s actually a bit clever. That’s your sign that she probably won’t mind hanging out with one guy instead of trying to work the whole club.
Be a Regular
This probably won’t happen in Vegas if you’re visiting. But when it comes to your local club, being a regular can really help if you just want to stop in and chill with a stripper without dropping a ton of cash.
If you’re cool with a few strippers, they know that you may pop in from time to time, and they get to know what you like and how much you spend.
If you’re a regular, they’ll also be less likely to get up and start working the room just because you’re only getting a few dances.
This goes along with tip #1 as well. If a club is slow, and you have a regular there, that’s the perfect combination.
Personally, I’ve had that situation turn into lots of cheap extras in the private dance area without spending much money at all. So even if you just wanted to chill, you can still get extras if you find the right situation.
Tips For Vegas
In Vegas, this is going to be a bit tougher since it’s a tourist town, and the strippers are always hoping that the next guy to walk through the door is some crypto billionaire.
However, you can still pull this off at clubs during the week. Even larger clubs like Palolmino can get slow during the week, and you can find a stripper to chill with you on the large chairs and couches they have on the main floor.
This is also possible at some of the smaller clubs like Chica Bonitas or Las Toxicas.
Overall, if you’re looking for a chill night with a stripper, it’s totally possible. You just have to change your strategy a little, and the rest is easy.
Remember, at the strip club, you’re in control. Don’t let the club or the strippers flip it around.
