If you’re planning on getting an escort in Vegas, I usually say that using an escort review site is the safest option. There’s the least chance of getting scammed or robbed, and you have a pretty good selection.
This doesn’t mean it’s 100% risk free, and you still have to do a little research, but it’s the safest method outside of a brothel.
However, contacting an escort from a review site can sometimes trip guys up. Sometimes they say too much, or sometimes not enough. The result is that the escort you want can just flat out ignore your message (which they do a lot!).
To avoid all that, I’m going to give you some tips on how to reach out to an escort for the first time so you get a reply and a better experience when she shows up.
Read The Escort’s Ad
Most decent escorts will have instructions on how they want to be contacted somewhere in their ad on whichever site you’re using, such as Private Delights or Tryst.
The ad will generally have her preferred method of contacting her. Some escorts prefer text only at first, while others say no texts at all, and you have to call her or email.
It’s best to use whatever preferred method they give, as they will likely just ignore anything else, so you’ll end up just wasting your time.
Her ad may also have some other instructions or preferences. For example, she may say you have to include the date and time you want to meet. Even if you don’t have the exact time or date, you can still contact these girls, just give them a range.
For example, say something like “this weekend, either Friday or Saturday night”. That’s close enough, so they think you’re serious about booking.
The reason a lot of escorts want to see a specific day mentioned is that guys often just text them to feel things out, and they have no exact date or time in mind. The girls call these guys “time wasters”, and they generally will just ignore them.
If you truly don’t know the day or time yet, then hold off on contacting an escort. They generally prefer a guy who is ready to go, and they’ll give that guy priority over everything else.
Should You Pre-Screen or Screen
A lot of escorts these days will screen new customers. Each can have their own screening method, and you just have to decide if you’re cool with it or not.
By cool, I mean whether or not you’re comfortable giving out the information they ask for.
Some ask for your LinkedIn profile. Others ask that you send a photo of yourself. Some may ask for a picture of your ID with the name and address covered. Others just do a quick FaceTime.
I generally avoid giving out any of this information, but your mileage may vary. If you make a good first contact and follow all the escort’s other rules, they’ll generally feel comfortable, and you’ll end up skipping any screening she does, or at least most of it.
That’s why contacting her the right way can save you a lot of hassle.
Pre-screening via the review site is another thing. Some sites, and some escorts who have their own websites, may want you to enter your information on the site.
Once again, I usually avoid this, but it’s up to you.
If you ignore this and the girl is big on pre-screening, she may ignore your message. So just be aware of this if you don’t hear back.
For me personally, I just move on to another girl if the screening is too strict or my message is ignored. It’s part of the game, so don’t take it personally or make a big deal out of it.
Don’t Be Put Off if She’s Kind of Short In Her Replies
You have to remember that these girls get flooded with calls, texts, and emails from all kinds of guys. Most of those guys have no intention of setting up a date. So these girls are usually pretty short until they think you’re legit and not a time waster.
So if your first reply back is just something like “yes”, or “what night and how long”, don’t be too put off by that. That’s pretty typical until you get further along in setting up the date, and she thinks you’re legit.
However, if you ever get a bad feeling during the texts or emails, don’t be afraid to trust your instincts.
Being Chill and Professional Will Make The Date Better
All of this isn’t to make it seem like you have to follow all kinds of strict rules. The reason you want to contact an escort the right way is that it puts her mind at ease.
The biggest thing an escort worries about is her safety. Don’t forget, she’s walking into a stranger’s room with no backup. This is true for virtually every legit escort I’ve ever known.
Escorts are already totally fine with having sex. That part doesn’t bother them at all. They just want to know they’ll be safe and nothing crazy will happen. If you put her mind at ease and she’s not worried about safety, then she can focus on the sex, which is the whole reason you’re doing this.
A relaxed escort is a happy escort. And a happy escort provides much better service than one who got weirded out by your text messages, and now she’s having second thoughts about showing up at your hotel room.
Overall, spend a few extra minutes on that first contact if you’re trying to set up a date with an escort. It will pay off big, and you have a better chance at getting the escort you want.
The hottest escorts who are totally legit generally turn down a lot of guys, so be smart, and you’ll have a better chance at landing the best escorts in Vegas.
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