I have tons of articles on this site about how to avoid escort and hooker scams. These are mostly about Vegas, but they apply to almost any city that has sex workers. I even have an e-book about the Vegas escort scene with even more information.
But most of those are about tips are about avoiding the scams and pitfalls when seeing escorts. What if you follow all the advice, hire a legit escort, and she shows up on time? What should you expect?
For a lot of guys coming to Las Vegas, it may be the first time they’ve hired an escort. It can be a little anxiety-inducing not knowing exactly what to expect or what they can do to make sure everything happens how they want it to.
This article will go into what to expect if you choose a legit escort, and you don’t have to worry about scams. It will cover what escorts usually expect and how to put them at ease so you have the best time possible.
A comfortable escort will perform much better, and you’ll have way more fun. So, let’s get started.
What are Escorts Most Worried About?
Sometimes, when hiring an escort for the first time, you’re worried about getting scammed or whether the escort is legit. That makes total sense, but we forget to consider what the escort is thinking on the other end.
Almost every escort has been robbed at least once or had a date go really badly. So they’re nervous about certain things too.
If you know about these things, you can put most escorts at ease as soon as you meet up. This makes them more comfortable and more willing to have the most fun possible with you.
Tip #1: They’re Worried About Guys Breaking Their Rules
Every escort has “rules”. These are list of dos and don’ts when it comes to sex acts or just general behavior when with a client. They’ll usually post it when they advertise on an escort review site. Sometimes they’ll have it on their website or even discuss it with you when you first make contact.
Most guys refer to this as the escort’s “menu”, and you’ll see that term in reviews of escorts a lot. Some escorts have very open menus, while others are very strict.
For example, one girl may have GFE with kissing on her menu. While other escorts will say “no kissing and no GFE.”
These rules are the number one thing that escorts worry about. A lot of guys try to push boundaries with escorts. Sometimes it’s because they simply don’t know the escort’s menu, or they are trying to get more expensive services for the base price.
So, make sure at some point during the setup of the date, you make some acknowledgment of her menu. Don’t make a huge deal about it. But a simple question or confirmation about what she’ll do or won’t do lets her understand you at least are familiar with her menu. Some escorts may not want to discuss this via text or online, since it leaves a paper trail. But either way, make sure to at least briefly discuss her menu so you’re both on the same page.
This takes a lot of the anxiety away for a legit escort and will make her more comfortable around you.
The next safety thing they worry about is clients taking off the condom during sex. For some reason, a lot of guys try this by being sneaky. Most escorts have had this happen several times, so they’re on high alert for it.
So, when you’re with the escort, don’t do anything that makes it seem like you’re taking off a condom or being sneaky. I won’t go into details here because you should get what I’m saying. But things like constantly pulling out when she can’t see what you’re doing (doggystyle) are something that will make her nervous.
Yes, you see this in porn movies a lot, where porn actors are constantly pulling out and going back in. This is for the camera, though. With an escort, once you start, keep going and only pull out if you’re changing positions or something, and she can tell what’s going on.
You don’t have to overthink it, just don’t do anything that seems sneaky or like you’re hiding something.
Trust me. Those are the biggest things an escort worries about during an encounter. If you avoid giving off those vibes, she’ll be way more relaxed and fun.
Tip #2: Her Personal Safety
Generally, a legit escort in Vegas probably did some screening on you before she agrees to a date. But she’s still going to be worried about her safety as soon as she walks into your hotel room.
She’ll be quickly scanning the room and looking over everything to find any evidence that you might be unsavory.
Try to keep the room organized. Don’t have empty booze bottles and food containers everywhere. This isn’t because you’re trying to “impress” the escort. The point is that she feels she can let her guard down and be more relaxed.
Relaxed escorts are much more fun, and you’ll have a way better time than with one who thinks you might be a psycho, drunk off your ass, or on drugs.
Tip #3: Nervousness is Contagious
Even if you are a little nervous when seeing an escort for the first time, don’t show it. Heck, I still get a little bit nervous when seeing a new girl; it’s just natural. But you have to learn to hide it.
Being nervous is contagious, and the escort will pick up on it and start being nervous too.
However, some escorts are truly great. They’ll pick up on nervousness and immediately try to put you at ease. If you have an escort like this, you really picked a winner, so kudos for that.
But that’s usually only the older escorts. The younger ones in their 20s are generally a little more shy and prone to nervousness.
If it fits your personality, sometimes it’s best to set up the date so you meet at the hotel before going up to your room. This makes those first few minutes less awkward. Most escorts in Vegas are cool with meeting at the hotel bar as long as you don’t try to spend too much time at the bar without paying her. For example, if you paid for an hour date, don’t expect to spend an hour at the bar before going to the room.
Tip #4: Don’t Waste Time
This will depend on how much time you booked. Most escorts start at an hour of time. If you booked an hour, don’t waste too much time once the escort shows up at your hotel.
The escort is usually ready to get down to business pretty soon after she shows up and gets a good vibe from you. There’s no need to take things slow unless that’s exactly what you want.
In many cases, the escort will start taking off her clothes pretty soon after she arrives. If that happens, go along with it and know this escort likes to get right to the action. Don’t try to slow things down otherwise, she’ll probably be confused.
If she sits down for a bit and starts talking, she may be trying to feel you out and get comfortable. You can go along with this for as long as you want, but don’t be afraid to push the action, as she may be waiting for you to start things.
Either way, be ready to get the action started. She knows what she’s there for, and you don’t have to sugarcoat it if you don’t want to.
The exception is if you booked more time. Some guys book overnights or several hours. If you do this and want to just chill, then by all means do what you intended. But for guys who book an hour, make sure you get down to business. The escort will generally feel comfortable once the action starts, assuming you did everything else right.
Tip #5: Get Showered
One thing every escort hates is guys who aren’t freshly showered. Remember, they have to put their mouths in certain places, and they want to know you’re as clean as possible. Either communicate before she arrives that you’re about ot jump in the shower. You can also take a two-minute shower once she shows up. Or even take a shower together to start the date.
Trust me, if the escort knows you’re totally clean, she’ll be more willing to go that extra mile and make you happy. If she suspects you’ve been sitting in those clothes all day, she’ll skip a lot of the fun stuff you might be expecting.
Remember, These Tips Aren’t Meant to Impress Escorts
Some guys confuse the advice I just gave as trying to “impress’ an escort like you’re out on a date. That’s not the case at all. The reason you do this stuff is so the escort feels totally comfortable with you.
Escorts are on high alert when they walk into a stranger’s hotel room. A girl on high alert isn’t exactly ready to act like a sexy porn star. Doing a few things to keep things chill and put her at ease means you’ll have a way better time and get your money’s worth.
As for impressing an escort, there’s no point in doing that. Escorts don’t show up looking to be impressed. What legit escorts want most of all is a drama-free time where they don’t have to worry about anything.
If you give them that, they’ll give you a great time.
Just keep in mind, this advice is all for legit escorts. If you get a scammer, then none of this will help, and you’re better off just ending the date as soon as you suspect something is up.
Make sure to see some of my other articles to make your next Vegas trip one to remember. If you want the inside information about escorts and strip clubs in Vegas, check out my two guides: The Ultimate Vegas Strip Club Guide and The 2025 Vegas Escort Report. Both of these guides have information you won’t find anywhere else.
