We all know strippers and escorts are in the business of selling a fantasy. They don’t have to actually be attracted to their clients, but as long as it seems like they’re having fun, that’s usually good enough.
But in reality, strippers and escorts do have preferred clients. Sometimes it’s looks, but often it revolves around age. And for the most part, they prefer older guys.
After hanging around countless strippers and escorts, I’ve heard the same story over and over again. But the reasons aren’t exactly what you expect.
So, below I’ll explain why a majority of strippers prefer older guys, and they’ll usually give those clients a little extra.
Less Drama
This is probably the biggest single reason strippers, and especially escorts, prefer older guys. Most escorts are already comfortable with what they do for a living. If they can have a stable client that comes in, has sex, then leaves without any drama or weirdness, she’s more than happy.
Older guys tend to have fewer hang-ups. They also tend to have other things going on in their lives that need attention, so they don’t have time to get involved in drama.
Sometimes, escorts do take advantage of this and try to get away with little scams because they know the older guy will just brush it off and not start trouble. But overall, they prefer older guys to almost any other age group.
They Feel More in Control
Escorts and strippers like to pretend just as much as their customers do. I go over this topic in this article about stripper psychology. One way they like to pretend is to think they’re in control, or the dominant one in the relationship.
When they’re with an older guy, they know they’re the more attractive and desirable one, so they get to fantasize they’re in control. This is complex, and I won’t get into all the details here, but strippers and escorts enjoy this, even if they aren’t really fully in control.
Like I said, it’s all about fantasy and make-believe, which goes both ways when dealing with strippers or escorts.
Money (obviously)
Yes, money is a big part of it. Most strippers assume older guys have more disposable income, and that’s what they want. However, that’s usually not the biggest reason they like older guys.
Most escorts and strippers have relatively set prices, so meeting a super-wealthy guy compared to meeting an average guy may not make a difference if they’re only seeing each other for an hour or two.
Sure, that super-wealthy guy may turn into a sugar daddy, but that’s rare. In the end, if a rich guy hires an escort for 2 hours and an average guy hires her for two hours, they both pay the same. The escort usually has no idea how much money the guy has when he books the date.
Daddy Issues
Daddy issues are real, and this is sometimes why strippers and escorts will fall for older guys. I’m not too terribly old, but I’ve had this happen several times.
One stripper I met had a father who went to jail when she was about 10 years old. I didn’t know it when we first met, but after she told me that, I realized she had serious daddy issues, and her wanting to be around me was part of that.
It made me a bit uncomfortable as I didn’t want to take advantage of the situation. But this kind of thing is pretty common if you hang around strippers and escorts enough.
They Don’t Feel Self-Conscious With Older Guys
This is related to the earlier section about strippers and escorts feeling more in control around older guys. They also feel less self-conscious. This can be a plus, because the more comfortable they feel, the better time you’ll probably have with her.
Tips For Older Guys
If you’re an older guy, you want to play into the ideas I outlined above. You’ll get way more extras from strippers and better performance from escorts. Just remember, most of these girls want to have fun and make some money in the process. If they feel comfortable around you, you’ll have a much better time and always get what you’re looking for.
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